Houseman / Butler Live-in La Jolla, CA [A]

Wonderful opportunity for an experienced, service-minded, and hands-on Houseman / Butler to support a private principal in a beautiful La Jolla residence. This full-time, live-in position offers separate living quarters, relocation assistance, and benefits.

The ideal candidate is a true "man about the house"—someone who takes pride in caring for a well-run home, enjoys providing thoughtful service, and is equally comfortable preparing meals, running errands, assisting with entertaining, and handling light household maintenance.

Job Description

A private principal in La Jolla is seeking a mature, capable, and resourceful Houseman / Butler to assist with the daily operation of a semi-formal household. This position requires someone who is service-oriented, highly organized, and enjoys a varied role that combines traditional butler duties with household assistance and companionship.

The successful candidate will assist with meal preparation, household organization, entertaining, errands, pet care, and general support of the residence. This is an excellent opportunity for someone who enjoys becoming an integral and trusted member of a household team.

Schedule & Hours

• Full-time position consisting of approximately 40 hours per week.

• Typical schedule may include:

  • 8:00 AM – 10:00 AM: Coffee service, breakfast preparation, dog walk, and household preparation.

  • 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM: Personal time/off-duty.

  • 2:00 PM – 5:00 PM: Errands, tea service, household projects, and daily tasks.

  • 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM: Off-duty.

  • 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM: Dinner assistance, evening service, and closing the home for the night.

Schedule flexibility is appreciated as household needs may occasionally vary.

Responsibilities

Household Management & Butler Service

• Assist with the daily operation and organization of the residence.

• Open and close the home each day.

• Prepare coffee and breakfast service.

• Assist with tea service and entertaining.

• Set and clear tables and provide service during meals and gatherings.

• Make cocktails for guests and assist with light entertaining duties.

• Maintain common areas and ensure the home remains orderly and welcoming.

Cooking & Kitchen Support

• Prepare meals and assist with family-style cooking.

• Serve as a sous chef and cooking assistant to the principal when appropriate.

• Assist with kitchen cleanup and organization.

• Maintain kitchen inventories and grocery supplies.

• Grocery shop and run food-related errands.

Household Maintenance

• Perform light household maintenance and troubleshooting.

• Assist with minor repairs, such as unclogging drains and handling simple household projects.

• Carry suitcases, packages, and boxes as needed.

• Organize storage spaces and household items.

• Polish silver approximately once per month.

• Deadhead flowers and assist with the care and presentation of the home.

Errands & Household Support

• Run errands and complete shopping assignments.

• Assist with home office projects, filing, and light administrative tasks as needed.

• Coordinate deliveries and service appointments.

• Provide transportation assistance when necessary.

Pet Care

• Walk and care for the family's beloved Cavalier King Charles Spaniel.

• Assist with feeding and general pet support as needed.

Requirements

• Previous experience as a Butler, Houseman, Estate Assistant, or similar private service position preferred.

• Comfortable working in a semi-formal household environment.

• Strong cooking skills and a genuine enjoyment of food and entertaining.

• Handy and capable of performing light household maintenance.

• Excellent organizational skills and attention to detail.

• Service-oriented with a positive and flexible attitude.

• Professional, discreet, and trustworthy.

• Comfortable assisting with a wide variety of household tasks.

• Valid driver's license and clean driving record.

Ideal Candidate

The ideal candidate is:

• A true "man about the house" who enjoys helping wherever needed.

• Comfortable in a home with antiques and fine furnishings.

• Service-minded and attentive without being intrusive.

• Organized, hands-on, and proactive.

• Somewhat cultured and appreciates gracious living and entertaining.

• Enjoys cooking and working collaboratively in the kitchen.

• Comfortable assisting with guests and entertaining.

• Physically capable of handling household tasks, errands, and carrying items as needed.

• A long-term professional looking to become a valued member of the household.

Additional Details

• Estimated Start Date: September 1, 2026

• Location: La Jolla, CA 92037

• Position Type: Full-Time

• Compensation: $70,000–$75,000 annually

• Benefits: Health benefits available

• Household Style: Semi-Formal

• Live-in / Live-out: Live-in

• Separate Living Quarters: Yes

• Relocation Assistance: Yes

Household Duties

• General Home Management: Yes

• Manage Others: No

• Home Office Support: Limited (filing and administrative assistance as needed)

• Cooking: Yes

• Laundry/Ironing: No

• Shopping: Yes

• Driving/Errands: Yes

• Family/Pet Support: Yes

• Table Service/Parties: Yes

Special Notes

• No dietary restrictions or allergies within the household.

• Household includes one Cavalier King Charles Spaniel and no children.

• Candidate should be comfortable with antiques, silver care, and maintaining the presentation of a well-kept home.

• Advanced third-party background check required (paid by the client).