Au pair for 2 Neurodivergent Siblings

We’re seeking an au pair to support two brothers,
aged 11 and 13. They enjoy playing Roblox, building with Lego, being creative,
and spending time with someone who offers calm, low-demand companionship.

We’re looking for someone experienced in working
with young neurodivergent individuals, with a strong understanding of autism,
PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), and depression. Familiarity with a
low-demand, low-arousal approach is essential. The ideal candidate will be calm,
flexible, and patient, with the ability to respond supportively to each child's
individual needs and rhythms.

To be a supportive, consistent presence for two
young people with unique support needs—offering gentle guidance and care that
enables them to thrive. A genuine interest in building connection, and a
passion for being a reliable, safe source of support, are essential.

Job Objectives:

• Build a trusting
  relationship with both boys.
  
• Spend time connecting
  with them and engaging with their interests.
  
• Provide support and
  scaffolding to reduce uncertainty and potential anxiety, anticipating
  possible triggers.
  
• Assist with school
  pick-ups and transport to appointments or outings.
  
• Help with homework and
  studying when needed.
  
• Fulfill a supportive au
  pair role with flexibility and attunement.
  
• Prepare simple meals
  when required.
  
• Respond with calmness
  and adaptability to changing situations.
  

Requirements

General Requirements:

• Fluent in English –
  Essential
  
• Valid driver’s license
  and reliable car – Essential
  

Job-Related Work Experience:

• Experience working with
  neurodivergent children or teens – Essential
  
• Previous au pairing experience
  – Essential
  

Job-Related Knowledge:

• Understanding of Autism Spectrum
  Disorder (ASD) – Essential
  
• Understanding of
  Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – Desirable
  
• Knowledge of low-arousal
  and low-demand support strategies – Essential
  
• Awareness of the
  sensory, social, and emotional needs of neurodivergent individuals –
  Essential
  

Job-Related Skills:

• Strong verbal and
  written communication skills – Essential
  
• Excellent interpersonal
  and relationship-building abilities – Essential
  
• Reliable executive
  functioning and organisational skills – Essential
  
• Creative and playful
  approach to engagement – Essential
  
• Patience, flexibility,
  and emotional regulation – Essential
  

Benefits

Benefits:

• Support and training
  from the family.